Living at Spain

Living at Spain

When I was nine , a closer friend of my family called Gonzalo, invited my Dad  to go to Spain for getting a better job ,saving money for us and then take us over there. But my Dad rejected him because  he didn´t want to leave us alone.
But I wonder what would happend if my Dad had decided to go with Gonzalo?
Probably we would living at Spain, maybe i don't know in Barcelona , it could be great, but i think my family and I  would had changed our marners and have a different type of view, like change our destiny therefore forget what we want and what we are.